Welcome to Chronic Thoughts

Insights, Answers & Support for Life With Complex Illness

Living with an invisible illness can feel like a full-time job—especially when the healthcare system doesn’t see the whole picture. Chronic Thoughts is where we unpack what it’s really like to navigate complex chronic conditions, from getting a diagnosis to managing flares, advocating for care, and everything in between. Whether you’re dealing with unexplained fatigue, trying to make sense of your lab results, or wondering how to get doctors to take you seriously, you’ll find practical answers, shared experiences, and evidence-backed insights—written by people who get it.

Explore our latest blog posts below for tips, tools, and real talk on living well with chronic illness. You’re not alone—and you don’t have to figure this out by yourself.

Danielle Lazarowitz Danielle Lazarowitz

25 Mantras to Take into 2025

A new year often brings a sense of renewal and reflection. For those of us living with chronic illness, the concept of a "fresh start" can feel complicated. While we can’t leave our conditions behind on December 31st, we can bring tools into the new year to help us face its challenges with compassion and resilience.

Mantras—simple, meaningful phrases that ground and guide us—are a powerful tool. They don’t promise miracles or “good vibes only,” but they remind us of truths that can be easy to forget in the whirlwind of daily life.

In this post, we’ll share 25 mantras to inspire, validate, and motivate you throughout 2025. Along the way, we’ll explore why mantras work, how to integrate them into your life, and additional ways to cultivate a mindset that supports your well-being.

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Danielle Lazarowitz Danielle Lazarowitz

10 Tips for Supporting Your Mental Health During the Holidays

The holiday season can bring both joy and stress, especially for those managing chronic illness or mental health challenges. In this blog post, discover 10 practical tips for maintaining your mental well-being through the holidays. From setting realistic expectations to practicing mindfulness and setting boundaries, learn how to prioritize your health and find peace this festive season. Whether you're managing stress, anxiety, or feeling overwhelmed, these strategies can help you navigate the season with more balance and less pressure.

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Danielle Lazarowitz Danielle Lazarowitz

Understanding the Pain-Tension Cycle

Learn how the pain-tension cycle impacts chronic pain sufferers and why your body might be trapped in a loop of tension and discomfort. Discover practical strategies, including breathing techniques, gentle movement, and mindfulness, to break the cycle and manage pain more effectively. Understand the role of the nervous system in chronic pain and how to create a relaxing routine for ongoing relief. You're not alone—find support and insights to help manage your chronic pain.

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Danielle Lazarowitz Danielle Lazarowitz

Finding the Right Words to Describe Pain

When living with chronic illness, trying to explain pain can feel overwhelming, whether it’s with a care provider, a coworker, a friend, or a spouse. Additionally, when you are experiencing high levels of pain you might feel foggy, making it even more difficult to name the feeling. Words like “bad” or “unbearable” only scratch the surface, yet it can be hard to dig deeper—especially in the moment. Let’s talk about why using descriptive words for pain is important, why it’s so tricky, and how you can make it easier for yourself. Plus, we’ve included a full list of pain descriptors to save and use whenever you need it.

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Danielle Lazarowitz Danielle Lazarowitz

Navigating Trade-Offs with Chronic Illness

For anyone living with chronic illness, every day is full of decisions that often feel like a balancing act. Managing symptoms, energy, and self-care means making trade-offs that most people never have to consider. Whether it’s taking a medication with difficult side effects or choosing rest over social time, each choice comes with its own set of challenges. In this post, we’ll cover common chronic illness trade-offs, offer tips for managing these choices, and provide resources to help make each decision a little bit easier.

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Danielle Lazarowitz Danielle Lazarowitz

10 Phrases to Practice for Self-Advocating

Self-advocacy is a powerful skill, especially when managing a chronic illness. But communicating needs, preferences, and concerns in medical settings can feel daunting. Many people with chronic conditions find it challenging to speak up, especially if they’ve had negative experiences with dismissive providers. However, using certain phrases can help you navigate conversations, make your needs known, and build a more collaborative relationship with your healthcare team. Here are ten phrases to keep in your self-advocacy toolkit, plus tips to help you feel more empowered.

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Danielle Lazarowitz Danielle Lazarowitz

Understanding Invisible Disabilities

Invisible Disabilities Week is an important reminder that many of us live with challenges that aren’t immediately visible to others. Invisible disabilities encompass a wide range of conditions, including chronic illnesses, mental health disorders, and neurodivergent conditions. These disabilities can impact our daily lives, relationships, and overall well-being, yet they often remain unseen. As a result, individuals living with invisible disabilities may encounter misunderstanding or skepticism from others, which can further exacerbate feelings of isolation.

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Danielle Lazarowitz Danielle Lazarowitz

Hurricane Preparedness Checklist for Chronic Illness Patients

When severe weather strikes, being prepared is critical, especially when you live with a chronic illness. To help you stay safe and minimize health risks during an emergency, we’ve outlined essential steps to ensure you're ready. Use this guide to prepare ahead of time, and keep it handy for future emergencies.

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Danielle Lazarowitz Danielle Lazarowitz

Understanding the Umbrella of Dysautonomia

October is Dysautonomia Awareness Month, a time to shed light on the various conditions that fall under the dysautonomia umbrella. Dysautonomia refers to disorders of the autonomic nervous system (ANS), the part of your body that controls automatic functions like heart rate, blood pressure, digestion, and temperature regulation. When the ANS is disrupted, it can cause a wide range of symptoms, making diagnosis and treatment a challenge. For the 70 million people worldwide living with dysautonomia, awareness is key to fostering understanding and getting the right support. This post will break down some of the most common types of dysautonomia, how they’re diagnosed, and the treatment options available.

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Danielle Lazarowitz Danielle Lazarowitz

Migraine Triggers You Might Not Expect

As we approach Migraine Awareness Week (September 23-29), it’s important to recognize that many in the chronic illness community live with the daily challenge of migraines. For those managing multiple chronic conditions, migraines can feel like an extra burden layered on top of everything else. Migraines are often misunderstood. They’re not “just headaches,” but complex neurological events that affect the entire body. Let’s take this week to raise awareness—not just about migraines themselves, but about the lesser-known triggers that can bring them on, especially for those already managing other chronic conditions

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Pushpinder Singh Pushpinder Singh

How to Embrace Support and Ask for Help

Living with a chronic illness often feels like a daily balancing act. You manage symptoms, treatments, doctor’s appointments, and the list goes on, all while juggling the expectations of daily life. So why does asking for help sometimes feel wrong? Many of us with chronic illness struggle with accepting help, even when we need it most. This reluctance can come from many places, including societal pressures, internal guilt, or a fear of losing independence. One of the biggest barriers for me is the fear of being a burden. Unfortunately, it’s common for those of us in the chronic illness community to feel like we’re “too much” for the people we love. But needing help doesn’t make you a burden—it just makes you human. Let’s explore why accepting help can feel so challenging and how to ease into asking for support without guilt.

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Danielle Lazarowitz Danielle Lazarowitz

How to Get Better Sleep with Chronic Pain

If you live with chronic pain, you're likely no stranger to restless nights. While we know how vital sleep is for our bodies, getting quality rest can feel nearly impossible when you're in pain. The relationship between pain and sleep is a tricky one, and the lack of sleep can even intensify the pain you're experiencing, creating a vicious cycle. But you’re not alone. Let’s break down why sleep can be so challenging for chronic pain patients and explore tips and resources to help you get much-needed rest.

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Danielle Lazarowitz Danielle Lazarowitz

Is Your Doctor the Right Fit? Red Flags to Look Out For

Managing a chronic illness usually means partnering with multiple healthcare providers. However not every doctor is the right fit for your needs, and recognizing the red flags early on can save you from unnecessary frustration and setbacks. In this post, we’ll explore common red flags to watch out for when choosing or evaluating a doctor, and why they matter so much when you are living with a chronic condition.

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Danielle Lazarowitz Danielle Lazarowitz

6 Types of Rest Every Spoonie Needs To Know About

Living with chronic illness means that our bodies and minds often need more rest than others might realize. But rest isn't just about sleep—there are many different types of rest, each playing a crucial role in our overall well-being. As someone navigating life with chronic illness, I’ve discovered just how important it is to understand and incorporate these different forms of rest into our daily routines.

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Danielle Lazarowitz Danielle Lazarowitz

Tips for Maintaining Hydration and Electrolyte Balance

As someone living with a chronic illness, you know that the summer heat can make managing your condition even more challenging. Staying hydrated is crucial, but did you know that maintaining your electrolyte balance is just as important? Electrolytes play a key role in keeping our bodies functioning smoothly, especially when dealing with conditions like dysautonomia, lupus, Ehlers-Danlos syndrome (EDS), or chronic fatigue syndrome. Let's explore why electrolytes are vital, recognize signs of imbalance, and discover some delicious, electrolyte-rich meals and snacks to keep you feeling your best all summer long.

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Danielle Lazarowitz Danielle Lazarowitz

What is a Dynamic Disability?

A dynamic disability might not be a term you hear often, but it perfectly captures the essence of living with a condition that fluctuates often. Unlike static disabilities, which have a consistent impact, dynamic disabilities ebb and flow, bringing periods of stability and times of significant struggle. For example, multiple sclerosis can cause symptoms that range from mild fatigue to severe mobility issues. Lupus might have flare-ups causing joint pain, skin rashes, and fatigue that can disappear and reappear without warning. Chronic pain conditions can mean some days are manageable, while others are overwhelming.

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Danielle Lazarowitz Danielle Lazarowitz

6 Tips for Managing Sjogren’s Syndrome Flares

Sjogren's syndrome can be a challenging condition to manage, especially regarding flares. Flares can be unpredictable and disruptive, but there are ways to reduce their frequency and severity. Here are six ways you can reduce and manage your Sjogren’s syndrome flares.

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Danielle Lazarowitz Danielle Lazarowitz

10 Ways to Pace Yourself with a Chronic Illness

As someone with a chronic illness, you may call it quits for the day once you run out of spoons, even if you didn’t do all your tasks. Sometimes, knowing the amount of energy you have to complete daily activities can be tricky, which can lead to overexertion and flare-ups. You can improve your energy management by learning how to pace yourself.

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Danielle Lazarowitz Danielle Lazarowitz

How to Manage Chronic Illness Burnout

You can experience burnout in all parts of your life. For chronic illness patients, it’s not uncommon to become overwhelmed with managing their conditions. Chronic illness burnout is a stress response to the responsibilities of dealing with a chronic illness. Here are ways to manage chronic illness burnout to cope with the stresses of a chronic illness.

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Danielle Lazarowitz Danielle Lazarowitz

POTS Patient Survival Kit

Maybe you’ve just been diagnosed with POTS or perhaps you suspect you have it and you’re are wondering what kind of items you should have on hand to help with your symptoms. We have got you covered with this “survival kit“! Below are some items and tips for anyone dealing with autonomic issues.

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